I want to ask you a question: when was the last time that you went out of your way to do something kind for someone that you did not know?
Has it been a day? A month? A year? Never? Is it important to you to help others? If you say yes to the last question, do you practice helping others or give it lip service?
This world needs more givers and helpers and less self-absorption.
We wonder why our lives are not turning around or changing, meanwhile we only focus on ourselves and do not consider others. And if we consider others, we do not act on our consideration and commit acts of kindness randomly. If you want your life to change then start by doing something for someone other than yourself. Start focusing on others and stop focusing on you. If you do this, your life will change and you will change; both for the better.