I am hyper type A. I am organized. I have routines. I have goals. I believe you make your own luck. But even I know there are times when you should go with the flow and let life work itself out.
You can push and push and push. You can scream and yell. You can try as hard as you can. Then you can let go and stop fighting against the current. The I Ching discusses this at length. Stop fighting against the currents of life and learn to find the flow; then jump in and swim with the current.
It can be difficult to know when to put in extra effort and fight, fight, fight. And it can be even more difficult to understand when it is time to stop fighting against the flow of life. It has taken me years to recognize this even though I’m not always the best at flowing!
What will be, will be.