Let me ask you a question:
Do you make a big deal of your birthday? Why or why not?
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Let me ask you a question:
Do you make a big deal of your birthday? Why or why not?
It’s another day. Being treated to dinner is just fine, but the hullabaloo isn’t really needed.
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I’m the same. Dinner, a gift, but that is all. I don’t like surprise parties or what-not.
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Not at all. I enjoy the attention, especially from my family, but I don’t get the point of celebrating the fact that I managed to live through a whole year 😛 If anything, my Mom should be celebrated on that day, for working so hard to give birth to me 🙂
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As I have gotten older I don’t. It falls in early Jan right after the holidays. Usually by then I’m tired and just ready for things to get back to normal. A good celebration for me is good sleep and a good meal! How about you?
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Nope, I don’t. Just another day to me. But my wife? She doesn’t let it go without some sort of hoopla. 😃
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Nope.
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Certainly not, but grandkids? Definitely a pleasure.
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No, an others may if they choose, but I don’t demand it or feel slighted if they don’t.
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Not really. In our marriage, the birthday person gets treated to dinner and dessert of their choice and that’s about it. 🙂 Now when our son was growing up he got all the bells and whistle and he still (he’s 22) gets as much hoopla as he will allow. 🙂 ❤
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I sure do! I like to make a fuss about other people’s birthdays, so of course I like to make a big fuss about mine! I’m fortunate enough to have friends and family who are always eager to get into a festive mood, so I take advantage of it. Life is short, so let’s get celebrating! 😀
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I like it super low-key on my bday… my oldest daughter’s bday is two days before mine, so I make a big deal out of hers and then want to just relax on mine! That’s the best gift 🙂 Now that she’s older, we often celebrate together, and that’s fun too. My bday falls on 9/11, so it’s a bittersweet/solemn day. But every year older is a blessing and worth a celebration!
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Small dinner with close friends. That’s my perfect birthday.
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For the big ones I may do, but each time I get to a big one (30) I decide its not that big of a deal
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Nope…I prefer to let the day go by without incident. Only a few people pay it any mind anyway. It’s never been a happy day for me, so it’s business as usual.
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I’ll joke around about it with my wife and son, saying things like I’m the birthday boy and stuff. Other than that I don’t, my birthday comes and goes at work without anyone ever knowing it happened, and that’s how I like it.
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Not exactly a BIG deal but I always celebrate my birthday. I always have. And now as a survivor of cancer and an autoimmune disease I celebrate just being alive and still being here.
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Obviously I make a big deal of my birthday. This day only comes once in a year and the only day I can get people to do whatever I want. Duh!!
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When I was a kid yes, but as I get older, it’s a reminder of how I have not succeeded in anything. (Besides raising and being there for my children)
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I think you are probably being a bit hard on yourself.
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