28 thoughts on “Let Me Ask You a Question – 1/13/19

  1. This question is so interesting. My answer is that it depends on the situation. If it were a medical situation and I could give blood or bone marrow or something like that I would absolutely do it. If someone needs a shoulder and an ear, I will do it. In a relationship situation though, that is where I set my boundaries. I will not align myself with some low energy, needy, passive/aggressive person that makes me feel like I have to prove I care. Forget it, that’s not happening. I’m not lowering my vibe to make anyone feel better.

  2. I have, on occasion, gone well beyond good sense. I suppose it depend on how much I feel I need them to know, or how much I think they need to know (there is a difference between those). And then, there is the condition known as “madly in love” where good sense goes right out the window.

    1. I think good sense is a valid practice. Some people go too far when maybe they should be reserved and then others don’t go far enough when they should.

      1. In the sand, Kidding. 😊
        I have patience, but even that gets stretched out too. I won’t enable anyone. I have gotten through a lot over the last 4 years, and I listened to others advice, and I worked hard.
        Others have to take care of themselves too. Helping guide them is all I can do.

      2. It is true that you have to be careful. People will take and take and take and take….if you allow them to do so.

    1. I agree. I am curious when people say “I’ll do anything” as to what they really mean. Life will teach you their are people in the world that you must set those boundaries.

  3. That is a tough question. I think it is a case by case scenario. I would do everything I can until I felt like I was being used and taken advantage of. Once I got to that point, my well would run completely dry.

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