Ah! I am so excited 🤗 Nope, not for the new year party, but for getting a job to die for, exactly aligning with my passion. The year’s indeed ending on a good note. So, I would love to take up this opportunity to be grateful for all the moments of 2017, which has helped me grow as a person that I am today.
So, I came across this photo on pininterest and I would like to mention some of my memorable moments.
- First highlight was my birthday, it’s always special with my family and friends 🎂
- Trip to Shirdi, a valentine day wedding, lonavala, Alibaug and other places with my short and sweet family ❤️ Travel is love.
- My first vote
- As I mentioned in my first post ( check out first blog post here) about the hair cut, it was kind of a new start in…
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In light of a New Year on the way, I wanted to write out my thoughts but also say them on video because this message is close to my heart and I think it’s so important we take this message into 2018 and beyond. ❤
It’s that time of year again when we eagerly await to shed this year and grow into a new one.
For myself, 2017 has been a bit of an uphill climb to say the least but I would also say in the best way possible.
I am certainly looking forward to 2018 and I am ready to kick some serious butt.
But I also know what it’s like to be on the other side of that mindset. There are many people who are going to be entering 2018 feeling the complete opposite of what I am feeling and so I wanted to just shout out…
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Love Yourself is a book that teaches you to come into terms with yourself and your situation. Written by someone who has fought depression and suicidal thoughts, Kamal tells you how he…
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The other day Tremaine at A Cornered Gurl (give her a visit!!) and I had a discussion in the comments of one of my posts about life not owing you anything. You can read the thread here The basic premise of Tre’s comment was that there are tons of people who do everything in their power to get ahead and fail to do so because of people in higher positions not giving them the opportunity to advance. My return question to Tre was to ask if there really are “a ton” of people who do all they can do.
My opinion on this is based on my experience and other’s opinions will vary, but I don’t see a lot of people in this world doing everything in their power to advance. Are there people who give their all? Yes. Are there a ton of people who do so? No.
To give one’s all is to use every moment of every day to figure out a way to achieve one’s goal. To do everything in one’s power does not mean to work hard. To give one’s all supersedes hard work; it is an unquenchable, burning flame of desire to possess what it is one wants. To give one’s all is an obsessive, definiteness of purpose. It is more than showing up every day. To give one’s all means someone is so determined to get to their goal that they will do anything and everything necessary to do so. I don’t know many people who possess this type of drive; present company included.
So I stand by my assertion that very few people actually give their all. Very few people do everything in their power. And when I say very few I am guessing that number is in the low single-digit percentile.
There is a truth that exists in this world–no one owes you anything. It doesn’t matter if you are different, odd, weird, pretty, ugly, successful, smart, dumb, etc. Life owes you zero, nada, nothing, zilch. You can pout and complain all you want, but it isn’t going to change your circumstances.
You can hope, wish and beg.
Ultimately you have a decision to make. Will you be the hunter or will you be the hunted? Are you a wisher or are you a doer? And make no mistake about it, it is a decision. Trust me when I say that there have been people far worse off than most of my readers who have dug themselves out of less than nothing to reach their goals.
Which choice do you make today? Do you get outside today and walk even though your legs scream at you to stop? Do you choose to eat some vegetables today instead of fast food? Do you choose to eliminate pay television today in order to reduce your debt? Do you choose to read the Power of Habit today instead of watching television?
What do you choose today?
I didn’t intend on posting again today but one of my favorite authors posted something to her IG that sparked something I had to share. As you see above, this author is Bernice McFadden and this is her sharing the rejection letters she received for her novel Sugar. I have this book as well as her novels This Bitter Earth, Glorious and I’d like to get my hands on Nowhere is a Place and The Book of Harlan but I digress. Needless to say, the writing is on point. Long story short, you all know that Sugar has gone on to do very well despite the 75 (yes, seventy-five…let that settle) rejection letters. For Indie Authors, we may not be looking for publishers, but we have rejection letters too. I want to encourage you not to give up when you get one:
Negative Reviews – One of our…
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Uh, negative Ghost Rider! Last night I fell asleep before 9 pm and didn’t wake up until 7 am this morning! I rarely ever sleep this late, but it is Sunday and it seems my body needed the rest. We don’t have big plans today, but I would like to get to the park for a little walk. Have a great day folks!
I understand effort is relative. As I listen to comments and watch people’s actions I notice there are people who truly believe they are working hard, but when compared to my work ethic they certainly are not. Then you can take my effort level and compare to others and you get the same result. As in life most things are completely depending on comparison; unless of course max effort is defined as one doing the best they can do.
When I think about effort I can also understand why some learn to only give a little. Maybe life has taught them that their best effort will not always result in them “winning” therefore they decided early in life that the effort was not worth it. Maybe some people don’t like to put in max effort because they want to fly under the radar. I know several people who have this attitude.
There are no guarantees, but that shouldn’t deter us from working to our max ability.
Today is going to be a great day! The weekends seem to go by so quickly with Friday afternoon turning into Monday morning in the blink of an eye. I’ve got a couple appointments today that I have been looking forward to for some time now. I have to take life and grab it by the tail, then hang on for dear life. I hope you have a great Monday also!